About Denny

Mr. Football

Denny Tave was raised on a chicken farm in Englishtown, New Jersey and received his diploma from Freehold High school. He was a three-sport varsity letterman for football, wrestling, and track & field. His senior year he was named "Mr. Football".

After high school, Denny attended Trinidad State Junior College in Colorado, where he played football and wrestled for their Division III program. After receiving his associate degree, he transferred to Bradley University, a Division I school, where he walked onto the football team. Within a month he was awarded a full scholarship for his talent and hard work.

Upon receiving his undergraduate degree, he went on to receive a Master's in Education from Montclair State University.

Coach Tave

Denny began his teaching career in the physical education department at Manalapan High school and taught there for a few years. Following Manalapan, he returned to his alma mater, Freehold Boro High School, where he spent thirty four years, until his retirement.

He wore many hats at Freehold Boro which included chairman of the physical education department, athletic director, and varsity coach for wrestling & football. He was also responsible for developing the school's driver's education program.

Giving Back

Denny was also passionate about giving back to his community. He ran a youth group, created "Team Tave", which was an after-school special education program, donated his time at Habitat for Humanity building houses for people in need, and participated in "Making Strides", which works with children with disabilities.

Denny'll Do It

Denny was a true renaissance man, always ready to tackle any challenge that came his way.

After school, besides his teaching and coaching responsibilities, Denny helped his wife Alison run an art gallery called "The Right Angle". During the summers, he served as the director of Pine Grove, a highly successful day camp in Jamesburg, NJ, that attracted kids from all over the area.

After retiring from teaching and camp, Denny kept himself busy with a handyman business aptly named "Denny'll Do It." His slogan was, "No job too big, no job too small...Denny'll do it all!" In this role, he brought his skills to residences and businesses throughout Monmouth County, NJ, leaving a lasting impact on his community. Whether he was hanging a picture frame or building a closet, Denny loved working with his hands and helping people. It brought him joy and kept his energy high. Every job he completed left a smile on the faces of those he met.

Papa D

Denny had a boundless zest for life and a deep love for his friends, but no doubt his greatest joy came from his family.

Denny cherished his wife, his two sons, and his daughters-in-law, but it was when his four grandchildren arrived that the legend of "Papa D" began. The joy that Lexi, Jordan, Mason, and Maya brought to Denny's life was nothing short of magical.

Denny and Alison, ever-present at the kids' sporting events, dance recitals, birthdays, and holidays, shared in every milestone with excitement and pride. The smiles on his grandchildren's faces were the greatest treasures of his life.

Wrestling coach gave high school freshman a chance to find his place

By: MARK ROSMAN, Managing Editor

I wrestled at Manalapan High School during the 1974-75, 1975-76 and 1976-77 seasons, the Braves were fortunate to have Dennis Tave as the school's wrestling coach. I entered high school already knowing Mr. Tave as the leader of my youth group at Congregation Sons of Israel in Manalapan. He and his wife, Alison, made the teenagers who were in their care feel comfortable and safe.

One evening during a youth group meeting in the synagogue, likely in September or October 1974, Mr. Tave approached me and suggested that I should try out for the high school wrestling team. Prior to that evening, I had never given scholastic wrestling a moment's thought. I'm not certain I even knew high school wrestling existed. I much preferred the variety of professional wrestling one could watch on Channel 9 on Saturday night. But Mr. Tave told me the Manalapan team needed wrestlers at the lighter weights (I weighed 98 pounds as a freshman) and so I said I would give wrestling a try. I found out sometime later that my father, Norman, who was a boxer at the City College of New York and in the U.S. Army during World War II, had asked Mr. Tave to recruit me for the wrestling team. Their secret collaboration worked.

With encouragement from Mr. Tave, I showed up at wrestling practice in November. In the winter of 1974-75, the Manalapan wrestling room was filled with colorful characters, and we practiced and competed under the watchful eyes of Mr. Tave and assistant coach Tom Collins. I stuck with wrestling for three years and have fond memories of my matches and my teammates. I am glad my father and Mr. Tave got together to give me a push in the right direction.

If you do a job like this for as long as I have - right now I am one month shy of 40 years - you start to see people you admired and cared about pass away. Dennis Tave, 77, my Manalapan High School wrestling coach, synagogue youth group leader and private driving instructor, died on May 14. His passing really hit close to home, and it means everyone is getting older, this writer included.

Mr. Tave - the only name I ever called him - was a fixture in the Freehold Regional High School District. He retired in 2000 as the supervisor of health and physical education at Freehold Borough High School after 34 years in education. He began his career as a teacher of health and physical education. A native of Manalapan, Mr. Tave graduated from Freehold High School, where he wrestled and played football for the Colonials. After graduating from college, he came home to teach and coach at Freehold Borough High School in 1966. He moved to Manalapan when that school opened in the early 1970s. He coached and taught at Manalapan for several years until returning to his alma mater, Freehold Borough. During his tenure in the district, he coached football, wrestling and track.

Dennis Tave is survived by his wife, Alison; sons, David (Jayme) and Jonathan (Dorian); brothers, Stuart and Lawrence; and grandchildren, Lexi, Jordan, Mason and Maya. Funeral services were held on May 17 at Bloomfield-Cooper Jewish Chapels, Manalapan. Burial was at Congregation Sons of Israel Cemetery, Manalapan.

Thank you, Mr. Tave, for taking a high school freshman and giving me a chance to compete in a sport I knew nothing about, to become somewhat proficient, and to have been able to carry memories of those days for more than 40 years. An educator's legacy truly lasts a lifetime, even if we do not always have the opportunity to tell all of our teachers how much they meant to us.